Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
LDS General Authorities On Love
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1) Love is a feeling of deep devotion, concern, and affection
2) The greatest example of God’s love for His children is found
in the infinite Atonement of Jesus Christ.
3) Love for God and fellow men is a characteristic of disciples of Jesus Christ.
4) We manifest our love for Heavenly Father by keeping His commandments
And serving His children.
5) Our expressions of love for others may include being kind to them, listening
To them, mourning with them, comforting them, serving them, praying for them, sharing
The gospel with them, and being their friend.
6) Our love for those around us increases when we remember that we are all children
of God—that we are spirit brothers and sisters. The love that results from this realization
has the power to transcend all boundaries of nation, creed, and color
[fblike]Catholics On Love, aka Charity
http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/09397a.htm
The third and greatest of the Divine virtues enumerated by St. Paul
(1 Corinthians 13:13), usually called charity, defined: a divinely infused
habit, inclining the human will to cherish God for his own sake above
all things, and man for the sake of God.
This definition sets off the main characteristics of charity:
(1) Its origin, by Divine infusion. “The charity of God is poured forth in our hearts, by the Holy Ghost” (Romans 5:5). It is, therefore, distinct from, and superior to, the inborn inclination or the acquired habit of loving God in the natural order. Theologians agree in saying that it is infused together with sanctifying grace, to which it is closely related either by way of real identity, as some few hold, or, according to the more common view, by way of connatural emanation.
(2) Its seat, in the human will. Although charity is at times intensely emotional, and frequently reacts on our sensory faculties, still it properly resides in the rational will a fact not to be forgotten by those who would make it an impossible virtue.
(3) Its specific act, i.e. the love of benevolence and friendship. To love God is to wish Him all honor and glory and every good, and to endeavor, as far as we can, to obtain it for Him. St. John (14:23; 15:14) emphasizes the feature of reciprocity which makes charity a veritable friendship of man with God.
(4) Its motive, i.e., the Divine goodness or amiability taken absolutely and as made known to us by faith. It matters not whether that goodness be viewed in one, or several, or all of the Divine attributes, but, in all cases, it must be adhered to, not as a source of help, or reward, or happiness for ourselves, but as a good in itself infinitely worthy of our love, in this sense alone is God loved for His own sake. However, the distinction of the two loves: concupiscence, which prompts hope; and benevolence, which animates charity, should not be forced into a sort of mutual exclusion, as the Church has repeatedly condemned any attempts at discrediting the workings of Christian hope.
(5) Its range, i.e., both God and man. While God alone is all lovable, yet, inasmuch as all men, by grace and glory, either actually share or at least are capable of sharing in the Divine goodness, it follows that supernatural love rather includes than excludes them, according to Matthew 22:39, and Luke 10:27. Hence one and the same virtue of charity terminates in both God and man, Godprimarily and man secondarily.
Baptists On Love
Matthew 22:37–40: Jesus said unto them, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets. (All citations KJV unless indicated).
Scripture repeatedly emphasizes loving our neighbor. Galatians 5:14: For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself, cf. Leviticus 19:18; Matthew 19:19; Romans 13:9; James 2:8.
John 13:33–35:…Whither I go, ye cannot come; so now I say to you. A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
Christians experience life through a relationship with God, which focuses on love as a compelling force that determines our very nature.
II Corinthians 5:14,15: For Christ‘s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again. (NIV)
Ephesians 3:17–19: …And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge — that you may be filled to the measure of the fullness of God. (NIV)
I John 4:7–10: Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love. In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us….
Love From LDS Magazine Articles
James M. Paramore, Ensign, May 1981, 53–54
When God’s love is known and felt and His commandments followed, the results are always the same. There is a newness of life—a spiritual awakening—that comes to man.
Jack H. Goaslind, Ensign, May 1981, 59–60
True brotherly love is essential to our happiness and to world peace. We must love one another and unselfishly share our gifts, talents, and resources.
Marvin J. Ashton, Ensign, Nov. 1975, 108–10
Love demands action if it is to be continuing. Love is a process. Love is not a declaration.
Robert F. Orton, Liahona, Jan. 2002, 94–95; or Ensign, Nov. 2001, 81–82
Given the purpose of our existence, if we do not love God and neighbor, whatever else we do will be of little eternal consequence.
Thomas S. Monson, Liahona, Feb. 1998, 2–7; or Ensign, Jan. 1998, 2–6
As we love our God, as we love our neighbor, we can be the recipients of our Heavenly Father’s love.
Thomas S. Monson, Liahona, Oct. 1996, 2–7; or Ensign, Oct. 1996, 2–7
The desire to lift, the willingness to help, and the graciousness to give come from a heart filled with love.
Gordon B. Hinckley, Tambuli, Aug. 1984, 1–6; or Ensign, Mar. 1984, 2–5
The principle of love is the basic essence of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Without love of God and love of neighbor there is little else to commend the gospel to us as a way of life.
David B. Haight, Ensign, Nov. 1982, 10–12
Knowing that we should love is not enough. But when knowledge is applied through service, love can secure for us the blessings of heaven.
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Love From The Catholic Encyclopedia
Love of God
Man’s paramount duty of loving God is tersely expressed in Deuteronomy 6:5; Matthew 22:37; and Luke 10:27.
Quite obvious is the imperative character of the words “thou shalt”. Innocent XI (Denzinger, nos. 1155-57) declares that the precept is not fulfilled by an act of charity performed once in a lifetime, or every five years, or on the rather indefinite occasions when justification cannot be otherwise procured.
Moralists urge the obligation at the beginning of the moral life when reason has attained its full development; at the point of death; and from time to time during life, an exact count being neither possible nor necessary since the Christian habit of daily prayer surely covers the obligation.
The violation of the precept is generally negative, i.e., by omission or indirect, i.e., implied in every grievous fault.
There are, however, sins directly opposed to the love of God: spiritual sloth, at least when it entails a voluntary loathing of spiritual goods, and the hatred of God, whether it be an abomination of God’s restrictive and punitive laws or an aversion for His Sacred Person (see SLOTH; HATRED).
The qualifications, “with thy whole heart, and with thy whole soul, and with thy whole mind, and with thy whole strength”, do not mean a maximum of intensity, for intensity of action never falls under a command; still less do they imply the necessity of feeling more sensible love for God than for creatures, for visible creatures, howsoever imperfect, appeal to our sensibility much more than the invisible God.
Their true significance is that, both in our mental appreciation and in our voluntary resolve, God should stand above all the rest, not excepting father or mother, son or daughter (Matthew 10:37).
St. Thomas (II-II.44.5) would assign a special meaning to each of the four Biblical phrases; others, with more reason, take the whole sentence in its cumulative sense, and see in it the purpose, not only of raising charity above the low Materialism of the Sadducees or the formal Ritualism of the Pharisees, but also of declaring that “to love God above all things is to insure the sanctity of our whole life” (Le Camus, “Vie de Notre-Seigneur Jesus-Christ”, III, 81).
The love of God is even more than a precept binding the human conscience; it is also, as Le Camus observes, “the principle and goal of moral perfection.”
As the principle of moral perfection in the supernatural order, with faith as foundation and hope
as incentive, the love of God ranks first among the means of salvation styled by theologians necessary, necessitate medii.”
By stating that “charity never faileth or falleth away” (1 Corinthians 13:8), St Paul clearly intimates that there is no difference of kind, but only of degree, between charity here below and glory above; as a consequence Divine love becomes the necessary inception of that God-like life which reaches its fullness in heaven only.
The necessity of habitual charity is inferred from its close communion with sanctifying grace.
The necessity of actual charity is no less evident. Apart from the cases of the actual reception of baptism, penance, or extreme unction, wherein the love of charity by a special dispensation of God, admits of attrition as a substitute, all adults stand in need of it, according to 1 John, iii, 14: “He that loveth not, abideth in death.”
As the goal of moral perfection, always in the supernatural order, the love of God is called “the greatest and the first commandment” (Matthew 22:38), “the end of the commandment” (1 Tim., i, 5), “the bond of perfection” (Colossians 3:14). It stands as an all-important factor in the two main phases of our spiritual life, justification and the acquisition of merits.
The justifying power of charity, so well expressed in Luke 7:47, and 1 Pet., iv, 8, has in no way been abolished or reduced by the institution of Baptism and Penance as necessary
means of moral rehabilitation; it has only been made to include a willingness to receive these sacraments where and when possible.
Its meritorious power, emphasized by St. Paul (Romans 8.28), covers both the acts elicited or commanded by charity. St. Augustine (De laudibus quartets) calls charity the “life of virtues” (vita virtutum); and St. Thomas (II-II, Q. xxiii, a. 8), the “form of virtues” (forma virtutum). The meaning is that the other virtues, while possessing a real value of their own, derive a fresh and greater excellence from their union with charity, which, reaching out directly to God, ordains all our virtuous actions to Him.
As to the manner and degree of influence which charity should exercise over our virtuous actions in order to render them meritorious of heaven, theologians are far from being agreed, some requiring only the state of grace, or habitual charity, others insisting upon the more or less frequent renewal of distinct acts of divine love.
Of course, the meritorious power of charity is, like the virtue itself, susceptible of indefinite growth. St. Thomas (II-II, Q. xxiv, 24 a. 4 and
mentions three principal stages:
- freedom from mortal sin by strenuous resistance to temptation,
- avoidance of deliberate venial sins by the assiduous practice of virtue,
- union with God through the frequent recurrence of acts of love.
To these, ascetic writers like Alvarez de Paz, St. Teresa, St. Francis of Sales, add many more degrees, thus anticipating even in this world the “many mansions in the Father’s house”.
The prerogatives of charity should not, however, be construed so as to include inadmissibility.
The saying of St. John (1 Ep., iii, 6), “Whosoever abideth in him [God], sinneth not”, means indeed the special permanence of charity chiefly in its higher degrees, but it is no absolute guarantee against the possible loss of it; while the infused habit is never diminished by venial sins, a single grievous fault is enough to destroy it and so end man’s union and friendship with God.
Love of man
While charity embraces all the children of God in heaven, on earth, and in purgatory (see COMMUNION OF SAINTS), it is taken here as meaning man’s supernatural love for man, and that in this world; as such, it includes both love of self and love of neighbor.
Love of self
St. Gregory the Great (Hom. XIII in Evang.) objects to the expression “charity towards self”, on the plea that charity requires two terms, and St. Augustine (De bono viduitatis, xxi) remarks that no command was needed to make man love himself.
Obviously, St. Gregory’s objection is purely grammatical; St. Augustine’s remark applies to natural self-love. As a matter of fact, the precept of supernatural love of self is not only possible or needed, but also clearly implied in Christ’s command to love our neighbor as ourselves.
Its obligation, however, bears in a vague manner on the salvation of our soul (Matthew 16:26), the acquisition of merits (Matthew 6:19 sqq.), the Christian use of our body (Romans 6:13; 1 Corinthians 6:19; Colossians 3:5). and can hardly be brought down to practical points not already covered by more specific precepts.
Love of Neighbor
The Christian idea of brotherly love as compared with the pagan or Jewish concept has been touched upon elsewhere (see CHARITY AND CHARITIES).
Briefly, its distinctive feature, and superiority as well, is to be found less in its commands, or prohibitions, or even results, than in the motive which prompts its laws and prepares its achievements.
The faithful carrying out of the “new commandment” is called the criterion of true Christian discipleship (John xiii, 34 sq.), the standard by which we shall be judged (Matthew 25:34 sqq.), the best proof that we love God Himself (1 John 3:10), and the fulfillment of the whole law (Galatians 5:14), because, viewing the neighbor in God and through God, it has the same value as the love of God.
The expression “to love the neighbor for the sake of God” means that we rise above the consideration of mere natural solidarity and fellow-feeling to the higher view of our common Divine adoption and heavenly heritage; in that sense only could our brotherly love be brought near to the love which Christ had for us (John 13:35), and a kind of moral identity between Christ and the neighbor (Matthew 25:40), become intelligible.
From this high motive the universality of fraternal charity follows as a necessary consequence. Whosoever sees in his fellow-men, not the human peculiarities, but the God-given and God-like privileges, can no longer restrict his love to members of the family, or co-religionists, or fellow-citizens, or strangers within the borders (Leviticus 19:34), but must needs extend it, without distinction of Jew or Gentile (Romans 10:12), to all the units of the human kind, to social outcasts (Luke 10:33 sqq.), and even to enemies (Matthew 5:23 sq.).
Very forcible is the lesson wherein Christ compels His hearers to recognize, in the much despised Samaritan, the true type of the neighbor, and truly new is the commandment whereby He urges us to forgive our enemies, to be reconciled with them, to assist and love them.
The exercise of charity would soon become injudicious and inoperative unless there be in this, as in all the moral virtues, a well-defined order. The ordo caritatis, as theologians a term it, possibly from a wrong rendering into Latin of Cant., ii, 4 (ordinavit in me charitatem), takes into account these different factors:
- the persons who claim our love,
- the advantages which we desire to procure for them, and
- the necessity in which they are placed.
The precedence is plain enough when these factors are viewed separately. Regarding the persons alone, the order is somewhat as follows: self, wife, children, parents, brothers and sisters, friends, domestics, neighbors, fellow-countrymen, and all others. Considering the goods by themselves, there is a triple order:
The most important spiritual goods appertaining to the salvation of the soul should first appeal to our solicitude; then The intrinsic and natural goods of the soul and body, like life, health, knowledge, liberty, Finally, the extrinsic goods of reputation, wealth, etc.
Viewing apart the various kinds of necessity, the following order would obtain:
- First, extreme necessity, wherein a man is in danger of damnation, or of death, or of the loss of other goods of nearly equal importance and can do nothing to help himself;
- Second, grave necessity, when one placed in similar danger can extricate himself only by heroic efforts;
- Third, common necessity, such as affects ordinary sinners or beggars who can help themselves without great difficulty.
When the three factors are combined, they give rise to complicated rules, the principal of which are these:
- The love of complacency and the love of benefaction do not follow the same standard, the former being guided by the worthiness, the latter by the nearness and need, of the neighbor.
- Our personal salvation is to be preferred to all else. We are never justified in committing the slightest sin for the love of any one or anything whatsoever, nor should we expose ourselves to spiritual danger except in such cases and with such precautions as would give us a moral right to, and guarantee of, God’s protection.
- We are bound to succor our neighbor in extreme spiritual necessity even at the cost of our own life, an obligation which, however supposes the certainty of the neighbor’s need and of the effectiveness of our service to him.
- Except in the very rare cases described above, we are not bound to risk life or limb for our neighbor, but only to undergo that amount of inconvenience justified by the neighbor’s need and nearness. Casuists are not agreed as to the right to give one’s life for another’s life of equal importance.
LOVE
See also Charity; Compassion; Enmity.
Deep devotion and affection. Love for God includes devotion, adoration, reverence, tenderness, mercy, forgiveness, compassion, grace, service, gratitude, kindness. The greatest example of God’s love for his children is found in the infinite atonement of Jesus Christ.
- Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself, Lev. 19:18 (Matt. 5:43–44; Matt. 22:37–40;
- Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, Deut. 6:5 (Moro. 10:32; D&C 59:5). Rom. 13:9; Gal. 5:14; James 2:8;Mosiah 23:15; D&C 59:6).
- The Lord your God proveth you, to know whether ye love the Lord your God, Deut. 13:3
- Whom the Lord loveth he correcteth, Prov. 3:12
- A friend loveth at all times, Prov. 17:17
- Love one another; as I have loved you, John 13:34 (John 15:12, 17; Moses 7:33).
- If ye love me, keep my commandments, John 14:15 (D&C 42:29).
- Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends,
- Peter, lovest thou me more than these? Feed my sheep, John 21:15–17
- Nothing shall separate us from the love of God in Christ, Rom. 8:35–39
- Eye hath not seen the things which God hath prepared for them that love him, 1 Cor. 2:9
- By love serve one another, Gal. 5:13
- Love not the world, 1 Jn. 2:15
- God is love, 1 Jn. 4:8
- We love him, because he first loved us, 1 Jn. 4:19
- Christ suffereth because of his loving kindness towards men, 1 Ne. 19:9
- Press forward with a love of God and of all men, 2 Ne. 31:20
- Ye will teach your children to love and serve one another, Mosiah 4:15
- If ye have felt to sing the song of redeeming love, can ye feel so now?, Alma 5:26
- Be led by the Holy Spirit, becoming patient, full of love, Alma 13:28
- Bridle all your passions, that ye may be filled with love, Alma 38:12
- There was no contention because of the love of God which did dwell in the hearts of the
people, 4 Ne. 1:15
- Everything which inviteth to love God is inspired of God, Moro. 7:13–16
- Charity is the pure love of Christ, Moro. 7:47
- Perfect love casteth out fear, Moro. 8:16 (1 Jn. 4:18).
- Sanctification comes to all those who love and serve God, D&C 20:31
- If thou lovest me, serve me and keep my commandments, D&C 42:29 (John 14:15)
- Show an increase of love to those whom you correct or reprove, D&C 121:43
- Men loved Satan more than God, Moses 5:13, 18, 28.
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There is a fine website out there called The Church of the Love of Christ. I commend it to all seekers of truth, along with scriptures from above including the Bible, Book of Mormon, and Doctrine & Covenants. The truth of all become immediately self evident to the seeker of truth. Let me give you an example of Mr. Webb’s excellent site:
- 1. Most people actually are not aware that their inner unrest, even desperation, arises from being separated from God and from the loss of paradise.
- 2. If true love is not achieved in life, which is based on a relationship with God, the loneliness that ensues becomes an unbearable prison, leading to feelings of anxiety and helplessness, to a loss of self-value, or even to insanity.
- 3. However, rather than turn to God to overcome the human situation, people will resort to being consumed by their work, to capturing a union with nature merely through art, to belonging to a social group held together by illusions, to idealizing the image of another person. Countless temporary and mechanical solutions are sought, which become as drastic and addicting as consuming alcohol, taking drugs, or pursuing the sheer pleasure of sex.
The above three paragraphs are from Montgomery Paul Web’s site, “The Church of the Love of Christ.” http://www.loveofchrist.info/church/love.html
3) Love for God and fellow men is a characteristic of disciples of Jesus Christ.
4) We manifest our love for Heavenly Father by keeping His commandments
And serving His children.
5) Our expressions of love for others may include being kind to them, listening
To them, mourning with them, comforting them, serving them, praying for them, sharing
The gospel with them, and being their friend.
6) Our love for those around us increases when we remember that we are all children
of God—that we are spirit brothers and sisters. The love that results from this realization
has the power to transcend all boundaries of nation, creed, and color
Catholics On Love, aka Charity
http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/09397a.htm
The third and greatest of the Divine virtues enumerated by St. Paul
(1 Corinthians 13:13), usually called charity, defined: a divinely infused
habit, inclining the human will to cherish God for his own sake above
all things, and man for the sake of God.
This definition sets off the main characteristics of charity:
(1) Its origin, by Divine infusion. “The charity of God is poured forth in our hearts, by the Holy Ghost” (Romans 5:5). It is, therefore, distinct from, and superior to, the inborn inclination or the acquired habit of loving God in the natural order. Theologians agree in saying that it is infused together with sanctifying grace, to which it is closely related either by way of real identity, as some few hold, or, according to the more common view, by way of connatural emanation.
(2) Its seat, in the human will. Although charity is at times intensely emotional, and frequently reacts on our sensory faculties, still it properly resides in the rational will a fact not to be forgotten by those who would make it an impossible virtue.
(3) Its specific act, i.e. the love of benevolence and friendship. To love God is to wish Him all honor and glory and every good, and to endeavor, as far as we can, to obtain it for Him. St. John (14:23; 15:14) emphasizes the feature of reciprocity which makes charity a veritable friendship of man with God.
(4) Its motive, i.e., the Divine goodness or amiability taken absolutely and as made known to us by faith. It matters not whether that goodness be viewed in one, or several, or all of the Divine attributes, but, in all cases, it must be adhered to, not as a source of help, or reward, or happiness for ourselves, but as a good in itself infinitely worthy of our love, in this sense alone is God loved for His own sake. However, the distinction of the two loves: concupiscence, which prompts hope; and benevolence, which animates charity, should not be forced into a sort of mutual exclusion, as the Church has repeatedly condemned any attempts at discrediting the workings of Christian hope.
(5) Its range, i.e., both God and man. While God alone is all lovable, yet, inasmuch as all men, by grace and glory, either actually share or at least are capable of sharing in the Divine goodness, it follows that supernatural love rather includes than excludes them, according to Matthew 22:39, and Luke 10:27. Hence one and the same virtue of charity terminates in both God and man, Godprimarily and man secondarily.
Baptists On Love
Matthew 22:37–40: Jesus said unto them, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets. (All citations KJV unless indicated).
Scripture repeatedly emphasizes loving our neighbor. Galatians 5:14: For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself, cf. Leviticus 19:18; Matthew 19:19; Romans 13:9; James 2:8.
John 13:33–35:…Whither I go, ye cannot come; so now I say to you. A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
Christians experience life through a relationship with God, which focuses on love as a compelling force that determines our very nature.
II Corinthians 5:14,15: For Christ‘s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again. (NIV)
Ephesians 3:17–19: …And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge — that you may be filled to the measure of the fullness of God. (NIV)
I John 4:7–10: Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love. In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us….
Love From LDS Magazine Articles
James M. Paramore, Ensign, May 1981, 53–54
When God’s love is known and felt and His commandments followed, the results are always the same. There is a newness of life—a spiritual awakening—that comes to man.
Jack H. Goaslind, Ensign, May 1981, 59–60
True brotherly love is essential to our happiness and to world peace. We must love one another and unselfishly share our gifts, talents, and resources.
Marvin J. Ashton, Ensign, Nov. 1975, 108–10
Love demands action if it is to be continuing. Love is a process. Love is not a declaration.
Robert F. Orton, Liahona, Jan. 2002, 94–95; or Ensign, Nov. 2001, 81–82
Given the purpose of our existence, if we do not love God and neighbor, whatever else we do will be of little eternal consequence.
Thomas S. Monson, Liahona, Feb. 1998, 2–7; or Ensign, Jan. 1998, 2–6
As we love our God, as we love our neighbor, we can be the recipients of our Heavenly Father’s love.
Thomas S. Monson, Liahona, Oct. 1996, 2–7; or Ensign, Oct. 1996, 2–7
The desire to lift, the willingness to help, and the graciousness to give come from a heart filled with love.
Gordon B. Hinckley, Tambuli, Aug. 1984, 1–6; or Ensign, Mar. 1984, 2–5
The principle of love is the basic essence of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Without love of God and love of neighbor there is little else to commend the gospel to us as a way of life.
David B. Haight, Ensign, Nov. 1982, 10–12
Knowing that we should love is not enough. But when knowledge is applied through service, love can secure for us the blessings of heaven.
Search Church magazines for content related to this topic.
Love From The Catholic Encyclopedia
Love of God
Man’s paramount duty of loving God is tersely expressed in Deuteronomy 6:5; Matthew 22:37; and Luke 10:27.
Quite obvious is the imperative character of the words “thou shalt”. Innocent XI (Denzinger, nos. 1155-57) declares that the precept is not fulfilled by an act of charity performed once in a lifetime, or every five years, or on the rather indefinite occasions when justification cannot be otherwise procured.
Moralists urge the obligation at the beginning of the moral life when reason has attained its full development; at the point of death; and from time to time during life, an exact count being neither possible nor necessary since the Christian habit of daily prayer surely covers the obligation.
The violation of the precept is generally negative, i.e., by omission or indirect, i.e., implied in every grievous fault.
There are, however, sins directly opposed to the love of God: spiritual sloth, at least when it entails a voluntary loathing of spiritual goods, and the hatred of God, whether it be an abomination of God’s restrictive and punitive laws or an aversion for His Sacred Person (see SLOTH; HATRED).
The qualifications, “with thy whole heart, and with thy whole soul, and with thy whole mind, and with thy whole strength”, do not mean a maximum of intensity, for intensity of action never falls under a command; still less do they imply the necessity of feeling more sensible love for God than for creatures, for visible creatures, howsoever imperfect, appeal to our sensibility much more than the invisible God.
Their true significance is that, both in our mental appreciation and in our voluntary resolve, God should stand above all the rest, not excepting father or mother, son or daughter (Matthew 10:37).
St. Thomas (II-II.44.5) would assign a special meaning to each of the four Biblical phrases; others, with more reason, take the whole sentence in its cumulative sense, and see in it the purpose, not only of raising charity above the low Materialism of the Sadducees or the formal Ritualism of the Pharisees, but also of declaring that “to love God above all things is to insure the sanctity of our whole life” (Le Camus, “Vie de Notre-Seigneur Jesus-Christ”, III, 81).
The love of God is even more than a precept binding the human conscience; it is also, as Le Camus observes, “the principle and goal of moral perfection.”
As the principle of moral perfection in the supernatural order, with faith as foundation and hope
as incentive, the love of God ranks first among the means of salvation styled by theologians necessary, necessitate medii.”
By stating that “charity never faileth or falleth away” (1 Corinthians 13:8), St Paul clearly intimates that there is no difference of kind, but only of degree, between charity here below and glory above; as a consequence Divine love becomes the necessary inception of that God-like life which reaches its fullness in heaven only.
The necessity of habitual charity is inferred from its close communion with sanctifying grace.
The necessity of actual charity is no less evident. Apart from the cases of the actual reception of baptism, penance, or extreme unction, wherein the love of charity by a special dispensation of God, admits of attrition as a substitute, all adults stand in need of it, according to 1 John, iii, 14: “He that loveth not, abideth in death.”
As the goal of moral perfection, always in the supernatural order, the love of God is called “the greatest and the first commandment” (Matthew 22:38), “the end of the commandment” (1 Tim., i, 5), “the bond of perfection” (Colossians 3:14). It stands as an all-important factor in the two main phases of our spiritual life, justification and the acquisition of merits.
The justifying power of charity, so well expressed in Luke 7:47, and 1 Pet., iv, 8, has in no way been abolished or reduced by the institution of Baptism and Penance as necessary
means of moral rehabilitation; it has only been made to include a willingness to receive these sacraments where and when possible.
Its meritorious power, emphasized by St. Paul (Romans 8.28), covers both the acts elicited or commanded by charity. St. Augustine (De laudibus quartets) calls charity the “life of virtues” (vita virtutum); and St. Thomas (II-II, Q. xxiii, a. 8), the “form of virtues” (forma virtutum). The meaning is that the other virtues, while possessing a real value of their own, derive a fresh and greater excellence from their union with charity, which, reaching out directly to God, ordains all our virtuous actions to Him.
As to the manner and degree of influence which charity should exercise over our virtuous actions in order to render them meritorious of heaven, theologians are far from being agreed, some requiring only the state of grace, or habitual charity, others insisting upon the more or less frequent renewal of distinct acts of divine love.
Of course, the meritorious power of charity is, like the virtue itself, susceptible of indefinite growth. St. Thomas (II-II, Q. xxiv, 24 a. 4 and
mentions three principal stages:
- freedom from mortal sin by strenuous resistance to temptation,
- avoidance of deliberate venial sins by the assiduous practice of virtue,
- union with God through the frequent recurrence of acts of love.
To these, ascetic writers like Alvarez de Paz, St. Teresa, St. Francis of Sales, add many more degrees, thus anticipating even in this world the “many mansions in the Father’s house”.
The prerogatives of charity should not, however, be construed so as to include inadmissibility.
The saying of St. John (1 Ep., iii, 6), “Whosoever abideth in him [God], sinneth not”, means indeed the special permanence of charity chiefly in its higher degrees, but it is no absolute guarantee against the possible loss of it; while the infused habit is never diminished by venial sins, a single grievous fault is enough to destroy it and so end man’s union and friendship with God.
Love of man
While charity embraces all the children of God in heaven, on earth, and in purgatory (see COMMUNION OF SAINTS), it is taken here as meaning man’s supernatural love for man, and that in this world; as such, it includes both love of self and love of neighbor.
Love of self
St. Gregory the Great (Hom. XIII in Evang.) objects to the expression “charity towards self”, on the plea that charity requires two terms, and St. Augustine (De bono viduitatis, xxi) remarks that no command was needed to make man love himself.
Obviously, St. Gregory’s objection is purely grammatical; St. Augustine’s remark applies to natural self-love. As a matter of fact, the precept of supernatural love of self is not only possible or needed, but also clearly implied in Christ’s command to love our neighbor as ourselves.
Its obligation, however, bears in a vague manner on the salvation of our soul (Matthew 16:26), the acquisition of merits (Matthew 6:19 sqq.), the Christian use of our body (Romans 6:13; 1 Corinthians 6:19; Colossians 3:5). and can hardly be brought down to practical points not already covered by more specific precepts.
Love of Neighbor
The Christian idea of brotherly love as compared with the pagan or Jewish concept has been touched upon elsewhere (see CHARITY AND CHARITIES).
Briefly, its distinctive feature, and superiority as well, is to be found less in its commands, or prohibitions, or even results, than in the motive which prompts its laws and prepares its achievements.
The faithful carrying out of the “new commandment” is called the criterion of true Christian discipleship (John xiii, 34 sq.), the standard by which we shall be judged (Matthew 25:34 sqq.), the best proof that we love God Himself (1 John 3:10), and the fulfillment of the whole law (Galatians 5:14), because, viewing the neighbor in God and through God, it has the same value as the love of God.
The expression “to love the neighbor for the sake of God” means that we rise above the consideration of mere natural solidarity and fellow-feeling to the higher view of our common Divine adoption and heavenly heritage; in that sense only could our brotherly love be brought near to the love which Christ had for us (John 13:35), and a kind of moral identity between Christ and the neighbor (Matthew 25:40), become intelligible.
From this high motive the universality of fraternal charity follows as a necessary consequence. Whosoever sees in his fellow-men, not the human peculiarities, but the God-given and God-like privileges, can no longer restrict his love to members of the family, or co-religionists, or fellow-citizens, or strangers within the borders (Leviticus 19:34), but must needs extend it, without distinction of Jew or Gentile (Romans 10:12), to all the units of the human kind, to social outcasts (Luke 10:33 sqq.), and even to enemies (Matthew 5:23 sq.).
Very forcible is the lesson wherein Christ compels His hearers to recognize, in the much despised Samaritan, the true type of the neighbor, and truly new is the commandment whereby He urges us to forgive our enemies, to be reconciled with them, to assist and love them.
The exercise of charity would soon become injudicious and inoperative unless there be in this, as in all the moral virtues, a well-defined order. The ordo caritatis, as theologians a term it, possibly from a wrong rendering into Latin of Cant., ii, 4 (ordinavit in me charitatem), takes into account these different factors:
- the persons who claim our love,
- the advantages which we desire to procure for them, and
- the necessity in which they are placed.
The precedence is plain enough when these factors are viewed separately. Regarding the persons alone, the order is somewhat as follows: self, wife, children, parents, brothers and sisters, friends, domestics, neighbors, fellow-countrymen, and all others. Considering the goods by themselves, there is a triple order:
The most important spiritual goods appertaining to the salvation of the soul should first appeal to our solicitude; then The intrinsic and natural goods of the soul and body, like life, health, knowledge, liberty, Finally, the extrinsic goods of reputation, wealth, etc.
Viewing apart the various kinds of necessity, the following order would obtain:
- First, extreme necessity, wherein a man is in danger of damnation, or of death, or of the loss of other goods of nearly equal importance and can do nothing to help himself;
- Second, grave necessity, when one placed in similar danger can extricate himself only by heroic efforts;
- Third, common necessity, such as affects ordinary sinners or beggars who can help themselves without great difficulty.
When the three factors are combined, they give rise to complicated rules, the principal of which are these:
- The love of complacency and the love of benefaction do not follow the same standard, the former being guided by the worthiness, the latter by the nearness and need, of the neighbor.
- Our personal salvation is to be preferred to all else. We are never justified in committing the slightest sin for the love of any one or anything whatsoever, nor should we expose ourselves to spiritual danger except in such cases and with such precautions as would give us a moral right to, and guarantee of, God’s protection.
- We are bound to succor our neighbor in extreme spiritual necessity even at the cost of our own life, an obligation which, however supposes the certainty of the neighbor’s need and of the effectiveness of our service to him.
- Except in the very rare cases described above, we are not bound to risk life or limb for our neighbor, but only to undergo that amount of inconvenience justified by the neighbor’s need and nearness. Casuists are not agreed as to the right to give one’s life for another’s life of equal importance.
LOVE
See also Charity; Compassion; Enmity.
Deep devotion and affection. Love for God includes devotion, adoration, reverence, tenderness, mercy, forgiveness, compassion, grace, service, gratitude, kindness. The greatest example of God’s love for his children is found in the infinite atonement of Jesus Christ.
- Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself, Lev. 19:18 (Matt. 5:43–44; Matt. 22:37–40;
- Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, Deut. 6:5 (Moro. 10:32; D&C 59:5). Rom. 13:9; Gal. 5:14; James 2:8;Mosiah 23:15; D&C 59:6).
- The Lord your God proveth you, to know whether ye love the Lord your God, Deut. 13:3
- Whom the Lord loveth he correcteth, Prov. 3:12
- A friend loveth at all times, Prov. 17:17
- Love one another; as I have loved you, John 13:34 (John 15:12, 17; Moses 7:33).
- If ye love me, keep my commandments, John 14:15 (D&C 42:29).
- Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends,
- Peter, lovest thou me more than these? Feed my sheep, John 21:15–17
- Nothing shall separate us from the love of God in Christ, Rom. 8:35–39
- Eye hath not seen the things which God hath prepared for them that love him, 1 Cor. 2:9
- By love serve one another, Gal. 5:13
- Love not the world, 1 Jn. 2:15
- God is love, 1 Jn. 4:8
- We love him, because he first loved us, 1 Jn. 4:19
- Christ suffereth because of his loving kindness towards men, 1 Ne. 19:9
- Press forward with a love of God and of all men, 2 Ne. 31:20
- Ye will teach your children to love and serve one another, Mosiah 4:15
- If ye have felt to sing the song of redeeming love, can ye feel so now?, Alma 5:26
- Be led by the Holy Spirit, becoming patient, full of love, Alma 13:28
- Bridle all your passions, that ye may be filled with love, Alma 38:12
- There was no contention because of the love of God which did dwell in the hearts of the
people, 4 Ne. 1:15
- Everything which inviteth to love God is inspired of God, Moro. 7:13–16
- Charity is the pure love of Christ, Moro. 7:47
- Perfect love casteth out fear, Moro. 8:16 (1 Jn. 4:18).
- Sanctification comes to all those who love and serve God, D&C 20:31
- If thou lovest me, serve me and keep my commandments, D&C 42:29 (John 14:15)
- Show an increase of love to those whom you correct or reprove, D&C 121:43
- Men loved Satan more than God, Moses 5:13, 18, 28.
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